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HOW DO I LISTEN- TO WIN, FIX OR LEARN?

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HOW DO I LISTEN TO MY PARTNER, DO I DO IT TO WIN – FIX OR…
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WHY LOVE

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Why We Should Love More I wrote this blog article as in counselling…
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YOUR IDENTITY - WHO ARE YOU

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IDENTITY – WHAT HAVE YOU DIGESTED ABOUT YOURSELF Some…
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Dream the New Dream

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DREAMING A NEW DREAM AFTER THE CORONAVIRUS EPIDEMIC   We…

THE CORONA VIRUS AND HYPER AROUSAL

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THE CORONA VIRUS AND HYPER AROUSAL I wonder is you are observing…
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SHAME - DEALING WITH IT.

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SHAME – WHAT IS IT AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT. When we are…

Do You Argue Often and Solve Little

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Many clients come to see me because they report communication…

DEALING WITH CHEM.SEX

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CHEM SEX AND ADDICTION Drugs and sex have been combined for…
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WHEN THERE IS MORE THAN ONE MAN IN THE BEDROOM

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Many gay couples come for counselling wanting to discuss having…

RELATIONSHIP LONELINESS AND SELF-REGULATION

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It is easy to become lonely in relationships when it is perceived…
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IS YOUR NEGATIVE SELF-TALK DOING YOUR HEAD IN?

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Just how is your self-talk going? When you think about your life…
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SEX ADDICTION TREATMENT

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SEX ADDICTION TREATMENT Frank wanted his life back. He had…
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DEFINITIONS FOR GAYCOUNSELLINGLONDON.CO.UK

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Definition of Psychotherapy Psychotherapy is the use of psychological…

TWO SIMPLE WAYS TO CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

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Do you feel communication is failing in your relationship? Are…
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BUSY OR PLEASANTLY FULL – HOW IS YOUR LIFE?

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BUSY OR PLEASANTLY FULL – HOW IS YOUR LIFE? I see many clients…
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HOW HEALTHY IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC?

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HOW HEALTHY IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC? You have been in…
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COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN IN RELATIONSHIPS

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COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN IN RELATIONSHIPS Communication breakdown…
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INTERNALISING HURT WILL MAKE YOU MENTAL

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INTERNALISING HURT WILL MAKE YOU MENTAL We are all guilty…
LISTENING
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INTIMACY AND SEX ARE NOT ALWAYS THE SAME

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Gay couples come to see me to explain that the spark has gone…
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SINGLE AND GAY CAN BE TOUGH

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SINGLE SELF-TALK So you are single gay and you have really…

STALE GAY RELATIONSHIP CURE

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Couples that have been together for a long time eventually develop…
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DO WE REALLY NEED IT ALL AS GAY MEN?

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DO WE REALLY NEED IT ALL AS GAY MEN? I’m presently reading…

KEEPING SECRETS RUINS RELATIONSHIPS

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KEEPING SECRETS RUINS RELATIONSHIPS Are you tempted to check…
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COMBATING NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

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NEGATIVE STORIES WE TELL OURSELVES   In our heads…
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MANAGING ANXIETY WITH ACCEPTANCE

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DEALING WITH ANXIETY BY ACCEPTANCE Anxiety is a feeling that…

SHARING WILL IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

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I know of couples that have been together for many years and…

PORN - ADDICTED OR JUST HAVING FUN?

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Surely having a good wank over some Internet porn can do us no…

Controlling Addiction is More Than Applying Will Power

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By the time clients have come to see me they have tried to give…
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Help, My Partner is Drinking Too Much!

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So what do you do if you find your partner has upped the anti…

Alcohol and Depression

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When we drink alcohol the party gets going and it all seems great…